Love is so extravagant and so important for everyone! What does this statement mean?
You may take part in the process that brings in people together in love and harmony.
I was telling you what to do to be prepared for your first blind date. The idea was that, initially, you should collect all the possible information about your future blind dater.
As a general observation, this advices are not only for blind dates, could be used in any kind of dates. By showing that you share the same tastes as your possible partner helps a lot in approaching each other.
So, let us keep thinking what should help us making impression at the first date. I think that if you would like that someone choose to spend the rest of his life with you, then that person should know you as you are. You are not going to try to be someone that you are not.
When you go out on a date you should look and dressnice. This does not mean that you must wear something that you are not used to wear. If you are wearing jeansall the time, then go in jeans, but make it with some normal jeans, not broken or dirty.
This will show the other person that you care about your appearance, but you also care about what other people think about you. If you do not care about what the other person thinks, then you probably shouldn’t be going out on a date with them. When you go on a date there are certain things to do and ways you should behave, depending on the person you are taking out. You should also remember to open the car doors and all doors for your date, if you are a man.
Anyway, if the woman you are going out with is a feminist, then let her open the doors and do things for herself or it will bother her. She also will want to pay for her own meal. Considering that I am a man, I am speaking more from a man's point of view, so, please, the ladies whom are reading this to apologize me. As far as I can, I try to be impartial, although I consider that it is the man's obligation to be polite.
If you are not going on a date with an independent woman then you should open the doors, be on time when you pick her up, and be prepared to pay for the entire date.
I hope now that the ladies changed their opinion about me.
Don’t take your date somewhere you cannot afford and never find yourself asking your date for money to cover the bill. It is a disaster if it happens at your first dating. Nowadays the conceptions are changed, we, the men, use to think that, as long as the wemen ask equality, then let it be I advice you to not consider that at your first dating, especially if it's blind.
Remember that the first impression counts a lot, and your purpose is to make good impression. One of the main things that you should not do is to make the other person feel as if they are on an interview. It is common for people on a date to ask many questions and they just want to get to know the other person, but sometimes this could be not agreed.
Give your self some time to know each other, try to find out what do you have in common, your mutual passions and hobbies, point on them, and the rest will come by itself.
If you make the other feel as if he/she is on an interview you might scare him/her off. Be sure to create a comfortable atmosphere, and to give the impression that you are not interested in the other's past, which, frankly, this is the way it should be.
You are trying to meet a new person and to create a common future, that means the past is out of discussion. If you lost my first part or if you want to know more, visit my blog.
The author is originary from Romania and now he is living in Spain, near the Mediteranean Sea. The author is running a blog at Blogger.com. For more in formation visit his blog at:
http://kaydas-romantic-dates.blogspot.com
Growing Online Dating Relationships
Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.
1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.
2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.
3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.
4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).
Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.
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