More Tips For First Blind Date

Love is so extravagant and so important for everyone! What does this statement mean? 

You may take part in the process that brings in people together in love and harmony.

I was telling you what to do to be prepared for your first blind date. The idea was that, initially, you should collect all the possible information about your future blind dater.

As a general observation, this advices are not only for blind dates, could be used in any kind of dates.  By showing that you share the same tastes as your possible partner helps a lot in approaching each other.

So, let us keep thinking what should help us making impression at the first date. I think that if you would like that someone choose to spend the rest of his life with you, then that person should know you as you are. You are not going to try to be someone that you are not.

When you go out on a date you should look and dressnice. This does not mean that you must wear something that you are not used to wear. If you are wearing jeansall the time, then go in jeans, but make it with some normal jeans, not broken or dirty. 

This will show the other person that you care about your appearance, but you also care about what other people think about you. If you do not care about what the other person thinks, then you probably shouldn’t be going out on a date with them. When you go on a date there are certain things to do and ways you should behave, depending on the person you are taking out.  You should also remember to open the car doors and all doors for your date, if you are a man.

Anyway, if the woman you are going out with is a feminist, then let her open the doors and do things for herself or it will bother her. She also will want to pay for her own meal. Considering that I am a man, I am speaking more from a man's point of view, so, please, the ladies whom are reading this to apologize me. As far as I can, I try to be impartial, although I consider that it is the man's obligation to be polite.

If you are not going on a date with an independent woman then you should open the doors, be on time when you pick her up, and be prepared to pay for the entire date.

I hope now that the ladies changed their opinion about me.

Don’t take your date somewhere you cannot afford and never find yourself asking your date for money to cover the bill. It is a disaster if it happens at your first dating. Nowadays the conceptions are changed, we, the men, use to think that, as long as the wemen ask equality, then let it be  I advice you to not consider that at your first dating, especially if it's blind.

Remember that the first impression counts a lot, and your purpose is to make good impression. One of the main things that you should not do is to make the other person feel as if they are on an interview. It is common for people on a date to ask many questions and they just want to get to know the other person, but sometimes this could be not agreed.

Give your self some time to know each other, try to find out what do you have in common, your mutual passions and hobbies, point on them, and the rest will come by itself.

If you make the other feel as if he/she is on an interview  you might scare him/her off. Be sure to create a comfortable atmosphere, and to give the impression that you are not interested in the other's past, which, frankly, this is the way it should be.

You are trying to meet a new person and to create a common future, that means the past is out of discussion. If you lost my first part or if you want to know more, visit my blog.

The author is originary from Romania and now he is living in Spain, near the Mediteranean Sea.  The author is running a blog at Blogger.com. For more in formation visit his blog at:

http://kaydas-romantic-dates.blogspot.com  

Growing Online Dating Relationships

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.

1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.  

4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

How to Attract A Woman

The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact By Tiffany Taylor :

Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without  first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. 

Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? 

If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. 

Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem? 

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules orprocedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re aconfident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when theyfirst meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re apersonable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealthtactility involves making physical contact with the girl inadisguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish 

your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping

numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the 

or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use specialpsychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today. For more information click here:http://tinyurl.com/c4dvpc 

1st Time Meeting After Chatting Online :

Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of emotions has also been conquered. Don’t try to think dirty here folks. What I’m talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or MIRC. 

Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms.

After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just chatting. Both persons may just be really looking for someone to talk to. 

Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you won’t see the other person thinking that it’s corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud). 

Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes very hard. This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really you. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is. 

Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person. Since it is easier to talk online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is. The person instead is like living both worlds. 

When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is being able to adjust. Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the person’s mannerisms. This will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome. Once you have gone past this, the rest will be easier. 

It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent disappointment and heartaches.

Establishing Online Dating

Establishing Online Dating Relationships: Safety First :

Online dating can be fun. But don’t neglect safety and common sense when you try to hook up with a mate. At minimum, take caution in the following areas.

Protect Your Computer 

Take care of your equipment and systems before you head out into the Internet realm. You need to have a firewall and anti-virus protection for your email and for when you search websites and interact online. At the bare minimum, you may want these two solutions that are offered at no charge to home computer users (i.e. not for commercial use)

Protect Yourself

Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service.  How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place.  Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.

So take care. Arm your computer – and yourself- with the correct tools and knowledge!

Know What to Look for in a Woman

Sometimes, knowing what you’re looking for in a woman can be quite difficult. And if you’re one of them, don’t get discouraged. It truly isn’t as difficult as you may think to find the right woman for you.

The very first thing you must do is resign to be very open-minded. You need to cast aside all the standards that you may have been using and start from scratch.  Forget what all your buddies say is attractive. Never mind what you see in the lingerie commercials on television. You’ll want to start with the very basics of what makes two people compatible, not two lovers, but two people in general, in order to find what kind of person works for you.

In order to find out what you are really looking for in a woman, you need to take the time to consider the complete person, not just the body. You need to take into consideration things like personality, interests, ambition and then looks. You’re probably wondering why I listed those traits in the order I did.

If you consider looks first it will tend to cloud your judgment on all the other traits. Men tend to be very easily visually stimulated. For this reason, what excites them at first sight tends to be what they think they want.

However, if you consider what you want in the other areas, the looks may not be so important. You may find that a woman with a great personality that likes football and racing as much as you do and who takes her career as a human resources director seriously, but who happens to be a brunette with only an average build, would suit you just fine. Personality, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor and interests play a much bigger role in attraction than just physical appearance.

UK Dating Statistics Reveals Positive

UK Dating Statistics Reveals Positive Results for the Dating Industry :

The most encouraging fact for the UK dating web sites is that more than half of the singles are finding their partners online.

You would be surprised to know that the present society is witnessing more numbers of divorces than marriages. Here follows the top ten results of divorce percentages by country: 

1. Belarus - 68% 

2. Russian Federation – 65% 

3. Sweden – 64% 

4. Latvia – 63% 

5. Ukraine – 63% 

6. Czech Republic – 61% 

7. Belgium – 56% 

8. Finland – 56% 

9. Lithuania – 55% 

10. United Kingdom – 53% 

The above numbers suggest that people are not maintaining long lasting relationships. Statistics like these and the increased rate of divorce fuels the growing popularity of UK dating web sites; many adults, especially those recently divorced or out of a serious long-term relationship, are no longer familiar with how to meet people socially and turn to the internet as a convenient tool for re-emerging into the dating world. One of the leading UK dating web sites has conducted a survey of their member profiles. The results are very interesting: 

• 53% have dated more than one person at the same time. 

• 71% believe in love at first sight. 

• 30% consider personality in choosing a mate; 14% consider sense of humor and 11% go by looks. 

• 29% say unfaithfulness is the primary reason behind relationship break ups. 

• 78% believe that his/her companion is not 100% honest with them. 

• 25% believe that a casual dating partnership becomes a serious relationship when one says "I Love You." 

• 67% don't trust their partners on the first date. 

• 44% believe a 5 year gap should be maintained while choosing a mate. 

• 69% are utilizing online dating web sites to find dates. 

• Despite such a high divorce average in the UK, 44% of respondents want to marry again. 

• 22% believe the work or office provides a great source for dates. 

This is the dating scenario in the UK. The most encouraging fact for the UK dating web sites is that more than half of the singles are finding their partners online. Kisscafé (www.KissCafe.eu) has been providing dating services in the UK free of cost. 

About Kisscafé 

Kisscafé (www.KissaCafe.com) is one of the fastest growing social networking and dating websites in the World Wide Web. The best aspect of this dating service provider is that all the exclusive service features (which other popular networking sites provide as subscribed services) absolutely FREE. Currently Kisscafé (www.KissCafe.com) has 22 international websites and plans to launch even more sites in additional countries. Efficient Instant Messenger, multilingual capabilities and advanced profile search technology has made Kisscafé one of the leading online dating service providers on the Web. Kisscafé (www.KissCafe.com) member blogs are a great source of interesting posts related to the dating industry, including dating advice, personal stories and much more. For more details, you can log in to their site and compare their services with other dating sites.

UK Sex Dating! Spicing up Your Sex Life



The UK's population has surpassed 60 million. About 600,000 people have come to work in the UK from the new EU nations between 2004 and 2006. The whole concept of love and sex has changed over the years. Psychology depicts love and sex as a cognitive and social phenomenon comprised of three different components: intimacy, commitment and passion. 


Having sex is obviously the natural and desired physical manifestation of attraction. But it sounds like even though you enjoy the sex, most want something more from a dating relationship - including honest and meaningful communication, vacations together, date nights, time together with friends, etc. 


As it is said, “Sex is more than an act of enjoyment, it is the aptitude to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it's almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you're a part of them.” 


To boost your sex dating relationship 
• Enjoy a romantic dinner together. 
• Give one another a long, sensual massage. 
• Try watching an erotic video together. 
• Explore new sexual positions, push your boundaries.
• Go on a romantic vacation or getaway with one another, free of distractions. 
• Find common ground to share, like a hobby or sport you can enjoy together.


If you really interested in spicing up your romantic sex life, Kisscafé (www.KissCafe.eu) can help!  Our member forums are filled with useful information on dating, relationships, sex and love.  Read the personal stories of others, ask members for advice, and more. 


Kisscafé (www.KissCafe.eu) provides 100% FREE UK sex dating services, where you can find fun, friendship, love, marriage, romance and more. Join now and get connected with someone special today. Browse free personal ads and photos, share your deep feelings, and express yourself with your own blog. Give wings to your thoughts and publish your fantasies instantly!

Dating Seduction Techniques

Seduction Techniques" - Are They For Losers?

Imagine that you are already in your college days and still you can’t find a date. Or even asking someone for a date is a misery for you. In short, you find it hard to approach women and lacks confidence in yourself.

Seduction techniques in this new millennium are on the rise. Seduction techniques can greatly help guys who find it hard to get the women they always wanted. So it is never a problem now. Seduction as thought by many is not wrong. You are just simply studying ...

Imagine that you are already in your college days and still you can’t find a date. Or even asking someone for a date is a misery for you. In short, you find it hard to approach women and lacks confidence in yourself.

Seduction techniques in this new millennium are on the rise. Seduction techniques can greatly help guys who find it hard to get the women they always wanted. So it is never a problem now. Seduction as thought by many is not wrong. You are just simply studying the best techniques that will make dating and picking up easier. Seduction techniques in the other hand are simply getting to know and basically mastering the proper ways of attracting women.

But did you know that seduction techniques are not just for men? It is also most useful too for women. These are the women who have been waiting to get noticed by their special men. Well it is indeed nowadays, a perfect help that life has to offer. Not that it is offering easy tactics on how to collect men or women – but making it easier to enjoy life and find that perfect mate. Seduction techniques are commonly practiced by people who are not well skilled in terms of attracting the opposite sex. Not that they are ugly or what, but there are just people who needs seduction techniques to boost their self-esteem and develop confidence in their selves. Seduction techniques are therefore not as bad as other think of unless you are using it to enhance the inner skills that humans usually possess

Seduction techniques are not generally focused on developing your tactics on attracting the opposite sex. It can also be very helpful in businesses. Like for example, you are a car salesman. And you find it very hard to approach prospective clients. You are wasting your time and effort on studying how to deal with them when you can actually make business with them. Seduction technique is one great help. You wouldn’t imagine how it can greatly affect your sales by simply practicing the principles used in seduction techniques.

Job seekers can also benefit from seduction techniques. While on interview, you can mesmerize the interviewer with the tactics that you have learned in seduction techniques. Not that you are inviting them to indulge into sexual activities, but you can impress them with the way you are boosting your self. Seduction techniques can tame any roaring beasts.

Seduction technique in general is an absolute solution for losers, men and women who possess low self-esteem, job seekers and even businessmen. People who are in immense need for help, in terms of capturing the hearts of the people they always wanted will be overwhelmed if they discover the wander of the so-called seduction technique. So go, and share the seduction technique to your friends whom you know are suffering from different encumbrance in their lives. You can absolutely be of great help in solving the miseries of their own lives.

"Tools" For Picking-Up Girls

We all know that approaching woman isn't easy. It can be  embarrassing and downright difficult. But,if you know what you are doing and have faith in your own forces you can get the one you like.

Impressing a woman is not an easy task, especially if you don’t have a lot of experience 

with females. There are many components that go into impressing a woman. 

If you want to learn how to impress a girl, then you should do your best to be positive. Keep in mind that smiles and jokes are great bonding mechanisms that you can use to impress a girl. 

There is a charm and seductive attraction that some guys have, so they have all the girls they want. This  magnet is called charisma, and it is very important if you want to attract the woman of your life. But, if this is a problem for you, you must try some tricks to pick-up the woman you want.

For example, use your dog to pick-up girls. You have a dog? Now its your chance. Take a walk with your dog on the place where you know your special one passes by every day. Any girl likes dogs. Small ones are very cute and the big ones make you look hot.

So, if you are with your dog out and suddenly your girl pass over. Make sure that she sees you. If it happens that your dog had a bad behavior and starts barking at her you might apologize and tell her to not take it personally. So, you can discus with her. Show her that your dog know some tricks  and while your dog is sitting and rolling over you' re getting to know the girl.

Babies. Every woman love babies.  Your friend is married and has a baby? Join your friend when he goes out with the baby and show interest by playing with the kid when she passes by you. Next day you can offer to watch out the baby for your friend and take him to a walk to show her you like kids. But make sure she has saw you in the day before with your friend to not think that the baby is yours. If the baby is crying when she passes by you, you might be lucky and she might offer her help to make the baby stop crying. So, you get to talk with her and may ask her for a date.

Use some magic tricks to attract her. You are 

seeing her every day and you don't have the 

courage to talk to her. First of all, relax. One 

of the biggest turnoffs for women is a guy who’s uptight. Just relax and you’ll be fine. After you start talking with her use some magic tricks to impress her and attract her. You may say that you are good at magick and you are offering to guess her future by reading her hand. She'll definitely laugh but if she's ok with this you may tell her that she will have a glorious future.

Don't forget to make her laugh. Laughter is all 

you need to attract  women easily and quickly. If you are able to make her laugh any time and any places it will be easier to you to get the woman you are  looking after for some long time.

UK Adult Dating Web Sites

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Dating activity on its various communities

personals lava is buzzing with activity on its various communities :

The Internet has given romance a new universe to operate within and personals lava seems to be the hottest galaxy around.

The Internet has given romance a new universe to operate within and personals lava seems to be the hottest galaxy around.  Kisscafe.com is hot like molten lava, and its online communities are buzzing with activity. We make life fun for singles with our huge database of members cutting across geographical boundaries - it will be hard to manage all your dates!

Dating is so much a part of being an adult, yet we find little time for 'the hunt.' Kisscafe.com makes life easier with its plethora of personals ads for singles to choose from: dating, intimate encounters, relationships, etc. Whatever you're looking for in a partner, you can find it here.  To choose a dating service that’s right for you, you need to clarify exactly what you’re looking for. As a newcomer to online dating, unfamiliar with all the options, you might be a little hazy on this front. 

One of the most obvious things to think about when choosing a Personals lava service is what kind of relationship you’re after. Some sites may focus only on one type of relationship, which limits your options but is helpful is you know exactly what you want.  If you're not clear what your intentions are, you might be better off choosing a dating service where members can pursue various types of relationships and online dating communities within one secure setting.  Consider what you want out of your personals website, how much you want to spend to become a member with full access (if anything!  Kisscafe.com is completely free for all members and all features, forever), and do a bit of research!

Please help me bring back the love of my life."  Part one of a two-part series.

Understand how the Law of attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!

Often I receive emails asking me how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a certain person--usually for romatic purposes. One woman, in her 40's, wrote to me this week and has given me permission to share some of our correspondence with you. Perhaps you (or someone you know) will recognize the feelings expressed here: 

"Please can you help me understand how to bring back the love of my life. We only dated for a short time but I know he is the one. He has been hurt badly and didn't want to end things with me but felt he had to because he was frightened he would be hurt again. It was a very emotional ending for both of us.

I love him so much that I let him go and I respect him so I have stayed away to give him time and space. We have been apart for three months. In my heart I know that we are meant to be together but even though I was so sad and in despair I still felt loving and kindness towards him and my thoughts were always hopeful. And in my longing and praying several 'co-incidences' have happened.

Not long after we split up I started searching the web for anything that could give me advice about winning back the man I love and discovered the Law of Attraction. . .Can you help me?"

Sometimes a man will write to me in a similar vein:  "I'm in love with this wonderful (or beautiful) woman. I know she is the one for me. Our paths have crossed often. How can I get her to notice me (or go out with me)?"

In part one of this two-part series, we'll look at why you are NOT in a relationship with the "love of your dreams." In part two we'll look at what to do when a seemingly "perfect partnership" falls apart. I hope that while reading both you will also understand how the Law of attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!

Part one: "Why am I NOT in a relationship with the love of my life? What's happening here? Is the Law of Attraction at work?" Of course it is! 

The Law of Attraction is always reflecting back to you your vibration. Remember:

You can know what you are vibrating by observing what IS showing up in your life. When you think you are in love with someone—and are sure they are "the one," but cannot seem to convince him or her or attract him or her, then they are NOT "the one". If they were, you would already be in a relationship with them--a natural, mutual, harmonious relationship that both of you equally gravitated toward.

Two scenarios are really at play here:

You are in love with the idea of this person being in love with you. That someone with these physical attributes, or character traits, or successes in life could want to be with you is an exhilarating idea. 

What often happens is that you meet someone who has five (or ten) characteristics that you are looking for in your ideal partner and you assume that he or she is your "ideal mate." You think, "This is it! I've found 'the one' for me for the rest of my life." However, the attraction just doesn’t seem mutual and you do not understand why. Didn’t the Law of Attraction bring them to you? Well, the real question is are they looking for someone like you? Are you a vibrational match for this person?

Remember that the person you are looking at may only appear to have the qualities you desire. Underneath the exterior clothing of beauty and success, there may be person with entirely different goals, beliefs and core values than yours. Even if you are very similar, what is he or she looking for? The role of their ideal mate may be very different from one you would truly like to play.

The second scenario goes like this:

You are in love with the idea of being “allowed” to love this person Seeing their potential and their needs, you may also see how “helpful” you could be for them as a mate. Searching for love with this motive is especially dangerous because, sadly, more often than not there is simply an insecure, life-draining person there, hoping to find someone to give their life meaning and purpose. (Not a healthy thought.) Victims attract someone who can make them a victim again. The poor attract someone who can enable them to continue in their poverty. The Law of Attraction is not fooled, nor can it be manipulated through words and expressions of desires that are not in alignment with the truth.

But you see so many people around you happy and in love, why does it not come your way? 

Here is how the Law of Attraction does work, and how you can make it work for you: 

In order to attract the "ideal partner"-- someone who is in vibrational harmony with who you are--you must be what you seek. 

Are you looking for someone who is kind? You must be kind. Do you want someone with good looks? You must care about how you look. Do you want someone who will make a commitment to you? Ask yourself, "Do I keep commitments?" Do you want someone who is successful? Ask your self, "Am I vibrating success?"

Remember, the Law of Attraction is bringing to you exactly what you are vibrating. If you want something different in your life, you must change yourself--your vibration. It's an inside job and you can only change yourself-- you can't change someone else's vibration. 

I referred to the second scenario as especially dangerous for this reason exactly – you can’t change someone else, and while trying to do so you stop concentrating on yourself, stalling any change and growth that may need to occur in you.

You CAN attract your ideal partner. You CAN find joy in a healthy relationship. Just start with yourself:

KNOW yourself 

ACCEPT yourself 

HONOR yourself 

TRUST yourself 

LOVE yourself 

When you do, the most perfect relationships happen in a perfectly natural way. 

Why? Because your healthy relationship with yourself is reflected in your healthy relationship with that significant other.

Rebecca Hanson is a Master Law of Attraction Coach.  Thousands of people have enjoyed her talks or articles about real-life experiences and how she found the "nugget of truth" in every situation.  Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking work that she is able to lift others to a higher level, very quickly.  You can contact Rebecca at Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.com or on her website at http://www.youcanhaveitall.com and sign up for her free “Museletter”.

Rebecca has also written a book called, “Law of Attraction for Business:  How to create a business or attract a job you LOVE!”  To find out more about this book and other information check out http://www.lawofattractionresources.com/